Bullying

Bullying is something more than disagreements, the difference of opinion or conflict leads to an ill-mannered argument. But I think bullying could be explained, as when you humiliate personal and social preferences in front of everyone just for the sake of fun of an individual. Bullying could be intentional or unintentional. It could be physically or mentally. But in both cases results are unsatisfactory.
Now come to the question of why bullying happens? The person who bullies others feels proud of herself. Bullying culture is common in high schools, colleges, and universities. Nowadays, it is a ritual that senior year students make fun of freshers. The person who bullies others always feels excited about doing this. The thing is, in our society is the person who did anything wrong gets attention. People want to be friends with them. They always become famous. But the sad reality is we saw the one side we think that he is doing good. He is spreading happiness. But how? He is not escalating anything good. Even he does not do anything on purpose but the vibe he is spreading is not great. He is continually insulting others. He is making fun of others’ personal preferences, Their style. He is becoming the reason for increasing mental health cases.
Bullying could of two types intentional or unintentional. Intentional bullying happens when the person is bullying someone because of personal grudges. He bullies him in front of everyone. So, the victim felt weak and surrender. Now, come to the unintentional bull. This type of bullying happens when the person bullies someone just for fun. He does not have any personal issues. He does that because he wants to gain some attention. He does that because he feels good after doing this. In both cases, the results are distressing. The person who is the victim is going through a lot. Depression, anxiety, self-harm, and suicide are the results of both cases.
Now you were wondering how the person who bullies others becomes the reason for increasing mental health issues. Imagine yourself in a situation. You go to your college every day. But your day, always ruined by a soul. Who judges you just because of your looks and makes fun of it. What happens to you every day. Now you imagine, just because of that incident, you can not focus on your daily life. Your personality is changing just because of it. You do not want to talk to anyone. You are afraid of being bullied or being judged again.
Now the question arose here why this bullying happen? The reason is we are victims just because we do not want to change ourselves, we are victims because we are introverts, we are victims because we do not want to promote vulgarity, we are victims because we want to break the stereotypes. We are victims because we want to be ourselves. Now the question is why someone bullies, us? He bullies us because he knows we are strong. He can not control us. He knows that we are not animals. So, he chooses the alternative of making ourselves weak.
Now the question that arose here is what happens after being bullied. After being bully, the person who is bully thinks that he is lacks something. His confidence level decreases. He does not want to talk to others because he thinks others will not accept him and bullied him again. If he was an extrovert, now he is an introvert. He does not want any human interaction. His life only revolves around herself and he enjoys his own company. But at some point, that person has to interact with others. This society only accepts extroverts or those who bully others. People attract those who bully others. They think that those who bully others are cool and, if they become friends with them, their life will full of fun and satisfaction. But their enjoyment is a constant depression of others life. So, I suggested you stop making jokes about others. There are millions of ways to enjoy life.
The bullying culture is not only in Pakistan, but this virus is now around the world. It is now becoming a tradition every in school or university, last year students bully their juniors, or this is happening for years but no one wants to break the stereotypes. Bullying not only happens till school or university level but it also happens in offices and even in family gatherings. So, in short, this virus of bullying is spread everywhere. The boss always bullies his employees because he thinks they look cool.
Everyone thinks this bullying thing is very cool. But the person who is the victim, this thing is not cool for him at all. We do our thing and, in this case, we bully and make him feel insecure. We can not go through the pain from which he is going. We always see one side of the picture but, we need to concentrate on the other side. It is unbearable.
So, if you are the person who bullies others, please stop this. You do not look cool. You look stupid. You are the sufferer stand for your self-respect. You are too precious to be bullied. Please answer back and end this bullying topic. You are the strongest person in this world the one thing you need to do just be yourself and stand for yourself. Thanks.